What also helps is improving your own confidence and social skills.You then see these people as closer to your level, rather than them being on a pedestal and you feeling you're a walking example of lame, awkward unworthiness that's lucky to even be talking to them. If you know someone is mean-spirited or gossipy you're going to be on guard around them.Collins English Dictionary - Complete & Unabridged 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. I do my job well, always go the extra mile and i am always courtoues and polite to other employees, my boss and our clients. I do my job well, always go the extra mile and i am always courtoues and polite to other employees, my boss and our clients.Whatever else happens...just sit there arnd do nothing.....it'll just make you feel worse!
Regaining confidence Displaying your confidence Responding with clarity Community Q&A Have you ever had an intimidating person leave you speechless, causing you to feel that you didn't have any courage to talk?
Here are the big ones: When someone is intimidated by really outgoing people it's that they're worried about having to talk to them and feeling really overwhelmed and like they won't be able to keep up or know what to say.
There's not much to getting past this one except more practice with social and conversation skills so you feel more comfortable in their presence.
I find their intimidating aura shrinks when you just have more experience with them.
You get used to them, start to see them as normal people, and learn firsthand that they have flaws and quirks and insecurities like everyone else.