Search for your husband's personal details and photo among different online dating sites.
Check sites such as Match.com, e Harmony, Zoosk and Christian Mingle.
We have been together over a year and have no children together but have plans to marry.
We've been through the mill and back due to his ex being a cow over access to his child cos he's with me (they split 5 yrs ago) but apart from that we were rock solid!! Don't know what to do I'm bloody heartbroken x Aww Hun, hugs hugs!
To get to the point, these signs predate the common use of one single item. If you partner carry around their mobile or cell phone like a body part, this is the number one red flag.
There are also other obvious signs such as coming home late, poorly explained reasons for bieng unreachable, bieng irritatble with you for no reason and generally spending less time at home.
Once you are sure this is not the case, then should definitely put on your gloves and detective hat then start some digging around.Search for specific details such as your husband's age, height, weight and location to see if you can locate his profile.Most likely he's not using his real name, but, if he does have a profile, he might not hide these other details about himself. Observe at what times your husband uses his computer, especially when he uses it away from you, perhaps late at night.Tattletale websites promise to tell you just what your mate has been up to behind your back.Take these sites with a grain of salt, while keeping in mind there’s no hell like a woman scorned who also has access to the internet.