A friend forwarded me an article about looks on the dating site Ok Okay, maybe it didn’t blow my mind, but it did validate everything that I’ve ever said about online dating.I’m going to do my best to summarize– and explain what you can learn from it. 1) Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness.It has now been published as a book, Bete de Jour - the title a self-deprecating play on words on the anonymous call-girl blogger Belle de Jour.And it's struck a chord with the millions of other men who believe they are also too ugly to find love.
According to research, women who send messages to men are twice as likely to receive a response compared to men who start conversations.
But good-looking or not with that line of banter he wouldn't have lasted long.
One thing I will say for Ug is that he's not afraid to change sides when the boot is on the other foot. In fact, I've dated my way down the ugly tree stopping at every branch on the way if the truth be known.
As Ok Cupid observed, the medical term for this is “male pattern madness”.
4) Women engage in similar behavioral patterns, just not as extreme.