It's twice as likely to happen in a pub, five times more likely to happen at a music gig. While having a romantic massage with your other half at a nice spa, for instances, the masseuses, thinking you're just male business associates on a business trip having a massage as a freebie, might ask things like, "So, how long have you been working together? It's the same with checking into a hotel and finding you haven't got a double bed."Instead of explaining, "Oh, this is my boyfriend, we've been out for six months, the sex is good etc", you weirdly end up just going along with the "Yes, this is my business associate" play. You can go to the front desk to complain, or you can just slam your beds together.So, instead of fighting over the newest man meat on Grindr, I recommend these practical tips for gay men:1. Plus, being honest with yourself is a great launching pad for honesty in your relationship. Do you always say: "Gay dating is such a chore," or, "Gay men just want sex," or "Every gay guy I meet only wants to talk about themselves? "For example, "Gay dating is such a chore." So What? "If it's not fun, then I might as well just stay home." So what? or at least that's what the replay of the tape your listening to is saying. Finally, let the fun-loving gay dater in you out to play. Just because "Bryce" dates like a mad man doesn't mean he's more datable than you.
Oddly, the most awkward moments in your first gay relationship are when people go out of the way to show how proud they are of you holding hands. After about six months you've nailed this story down, like a comedian performing this as a stand-up routine. It's the facial expression of a person slowly realising that your relationship story is no more interesting than a straight bloke talking about theirs."So you didn't meet in a gay bar? ""So you didn't meet in the skip directly behind your local Tesco Extra? " This is asked as if having some kids would be some heroic feat. You get used to wearing their clothes so much you don't go home.When you're in your first gay relationship you learn that holding hands will turn heads.At first you think it's because people are offended, but then you clock that they're sensing something is different and are just checking to see what it is.I just couldn’t handle it if he didn’t say it back.I’ve wanted to say it and I just couldn’t bring myself to do it.