Do you still want to get back together with your ex? You see how all of these things can radically impact your decision as to when to get back out there? I couldn’t convince her to take me back, so I did what I do best – I went back online – literally MINUTES after I returned home from the teary breakup.
And I don’t know the first thing about you or your individual circumstances. Now, in some respects, this made sense, in that I wasn’t going wallow in misery and think about what I did wrong or how I could fix things.
More important than the specific amount of time you need, though, is the state of mind you're in.
You want to make sure you're not still in post-breakup mode.
When it comes to post-breakup dating, there are two main philosophies: One is that, if you date right after a breakup, you're rebounding, which is unhealthy.
Dear Eliza, Sorry to say, but there’s not really a one-size-fits-all answer to this question.
Consider the number of variables involved in answering: Are there children involved?
I do want to go out with this guy and while I don't feel I am going to forget about my ex anytime soon, I am interested in seeing where this goes and what feelings develop.
My question is this: Is it possible to move on to someone while you're still feeling emotionally connected to another?