She’s questioning how she’s ever going to find love again in the future. …or if you’ve struggled for years to figure out why you choose the wrong men… You’ve been investing in the least important qualities. After all, the guy who doesn’t prioritize you now is NEVER going to prioritize you. Am I just a big sap for thinking that character is a better predictor of relationship stability than chemistry?
Most of all, she’s questioning her own judgment, which is the hardest thing to do when you pride yourself on being intelligent and rational. And I’m betting that you’re a lot better off without that guy than you are with him. Cut him loose and choose the man who loves you for what’s INSIDE.
” Many of us are in relationships asking ourselves this question right now.
Unable to make a decision to stay or go, second guessing our intuition.
She’s questioning the meaning of her entire relationship. So if Tami wants to know where she went wrong in choosing her husband… Instead, learn to appreciate the guy who does what he says, who says what he means, who makes it clear that you’re a priority to him.
One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on? Which is why I want to tell you what REALLY matters in a man…
” If you’ve ever asked yourself the same question, I understand. I wanted to “just know” that she was the “right” person for me. Yesterday, I was instant messaging an old friend on Facebook. I’ve already acknowledged that I’ve dated younger women, smarter women, more successful women, and so on… I’m telling you, if I were hit by a bus tomorrow, she’d push me around in a wheelchair for the next 40 years. There are no shortage of impressive men out there who make you tingle every time you think of them – but they’re WORTHLESS if they don’t put YOU first.
So you search for someone tall, handsome, rich, funny, and spiritual, who also likes wine tasting and skiing, and think that if you find him, all will be well.
Think again.“We need to know the intimate functioning of the psyche of the person we’re planning to marry.